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Understanding the Mind of a Distancer

Pursuer-distancer relationships cause a lot of heartache, especially for a pursuer. Learn about the mind of a distancer to understand your own or your partner’s…
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The Narcissists’ Hidden False Self

Narcissists have a false self. They’re master illusionists. They behave like a little king or queen — whether bragging or sulking. Their whole personality is like an iceberg to deceive you into believing only what you see – their confidence, self-sufficiency, and charm, while hiding what you don’t see.

Three Secret Behaviors of Narcissists

Narcissists’ entire personality is a defense to help them manage their hidden insecurity and inner turmoil. There are three secret behaviors they do that aren’t…

Are You Kind or Are You Codependent?

Do you wonder whether you’re a kind, empathetic person or are you codependent? There is a difference between empathy and codependency. There are codependents who…
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