Darlene Lancer - How to Overcome Codependency and Low Self-Esteem




Media – Seminars – Webinars Public Appearances

Nov. 14, 2021 Signs and Symptoms of Codependency and Narcissism. Watch the Interview with Lydia Michalitsianos.

Oct. 22, 2021 Codependency vs. Narcissism, Shame vs. Guilt, Self-Acceptance, & Intimacy  Podcast with Narcissist Apocalypse

Sept. 27, 2021 The Dynamics of Relationships with Narcissists. Watch Interview with Different Brains

Sept. 27, 2021 How to Diagnose a Narcissist. Watch Interview with Different Brains

Sept 18 2021 Relationships with Narcissists From Dating to Leaving. Watch Interview with Narcabuse_TV or Youtube.

July 22, 2021 Shame and Addiction in the Family and Codependency. Listen or Watch. Interview on The Buttrfly Effect

April 12, 2021 How Narcissists Deceive You Listen or Watch. Interview on The Lisa Show on BYU Radio & Sirius XM 143

April 8, 2021 Unlearning Codependency and Shame Podcast with Michelle Chalfant

March 31, 2021 Intimacy & Codependency Video Interview at Flame of Marriage Summit

March 29, 2021 Parenting an Addict Video Interview at Unstoppable Moms Summit

March 26, 2021 How to Recover from Codependency Video Interview with Lilli Bewley

February 5, 2021 Podcast Interview with Sherry Gaba at The Love Fix

February 1, 2021 Video Interview at Relationship Breakup to Breakthrough Summit

January 28, 2021 Radio Interview  with Last Door Recovery on shame during lockdown and co-alcoholics in recovery

September 28, 2020 How Shame and Codependency Interact Video Interview with She Recovers

September 19, 2020 Narcissists and Relationships Podcast Interview with Terrence Deaton

September 12, 2020 Dynamics of Abusive Relationships Podcast Interview with Veronika Archer

August 20, 2020 Codependency: Trauma, Shame, and Recovery Video Interview at Codependency Round Table

August 11, 2020 Power Imbalance in Relationships Interview on The Lisa Show on BYURadio

February 11, 2020 How We Sabotage Love Podcast with Amee Quiriconi about self-esteem and relationships

February 14, 2020 Codependency: History, Cause, and Intimacy Issues in Relationships Interview for NPR podcast on the science of love and article on codependency

December 12, 2019 Codependency Symptoms and Shame Podcast with Dr. Russell Thackeray of Resilience Unravelled

November 20, 2019 Codependency, Parenting and the Family Podcast with Anna Seewald of Authentic Parenting

October 14, 2019 Authenticity vs. Shame Interview with Sue Ann Yeung of Be Authentically You

October 5-9, 2019 Narcissistic Trauma Conference with Susan Ball

July 9, 2019 Codependency, Symptoms, Self-Esteem, Attachment, and Dating Podcast with Kim Berg of The Ultimate Love Show

May 30, 2019 Codependency and Recovery Podcast with Jeff Jones of The Family Recovery Solution

May 25, 2019 Codependency vs. Interdependency Interview with Leslie Doares. See “Are You Codependent or Interdependent?

April 11, 2019 Channel Q Let’s Go There” on Radio.com Toxic Parents Interview with Shira and Ryan

March 29, 2019 NBR FM 9:52am PDT Professionals Round Table Interview with Elvis Marchand

February 24th, 2019 KABC Dr. G: Engaging Minds Panel on alcoholism and codependency depicted in Melissa McCarthy’s movie,”Can You Ever Forgive Me?”

February 18, 2019 How Parenting Causes Codependency and Shame Webinar Interview with Cheryl Fidelman

December 17, 2018 How to Set Boundaries in Relationships Podcast with Kendall Ann Byrd of High Heels and Heartache.

Nov. 1, 2018 WTHB Self-Esteem and Narcissism Interview with Carl Thorton

Sept. 11-17, 2018 Overcoming Shame and Guilt Webinar Interview with Ande Anderson

Sept. 1-10, 2018 Emotional Abuse Recovery and Resilience Summit Webinar Interview with Stacy Brookman.

July 30, 2018 How to Beat Perfectionism BBS Radio Network Interview with Filippo Voltaggio on The Life Changes Show

August 24, 2018 Trapped in an Unhappy Relationship? WebtalkRadio Interview with Lesli Doares

July 17, 2018 Codependency and Addiction Podcast with Alex Avila of Love University

July 7, 2018 WTHB Narcissism and Narcissistic Relationships Interview with Carl Thorton

August 8, 2017 Overcoming Perfectionism Interview on Mental Health News Radio with Kristin Walker

June 27, 2018 Overcoming Codependency Webinar with Ande Anderson.

June 4, 2018 Empowering Stepmoms Webinar Series with Nathalie Savell

April 6, 2018 Codependency Podcast Interview with Joseph Foley

July 13, 2017 Perfectionism and Self-Esteem Interview with Jenny McCarthy

July 15, 2016 Put the “I” in Independence. Interview about autonomy and how to achieve it with Kristin Walker.

July 5, 2016 Relationships with Narcissists-How to Detach and Communicate. Interview with Colleen Mullen.

June 15, 2016 Voice of America – Codependency & Self-Esteem Empowerment Interview with Tamara Neal.

May 2, 2016 Codependency Symptoms and Emptiness Interview with Sherry Gaba or watch on YouTube.

February 9, 2016 Dealing with a Narcissist: 8 Steps to Raise Self-Esteem and Set Boundaries with Difficult People Interview with Randi Fine.

April 12, 2016 Overcoming Codependent Guilt and Shame Interview with Dr. Pamela Brewer.

February 5, 2016 Freedom from Guilt and Blame: Finding Self-Forgiveness Interview with Randi Fine.

January 14, 2016 Self-Esteem Interview with Jenny McCarthy

December 28, 2015 10 Steps to Self-Esteem. Interview on Vancouver Recovery Radio CFRO 100.5.

November 17, 2015 NPD and Narcissistic Relationships Interview on Mental Health News and on Youtube.

July 14, 2015 “Overcoming Codependency” Interview with Randi Fine

June 11, 2015 Conquering Shame and Codependency. Interview with Brian Pisor. Read the transcript and book review

June 10, 2014 Freedom From Shame, MyNDTALK with Dr. Pamela Brewer

July 2, 2014 Conquering Shame and Codependency. Interview with Cyrus Webb

May 6, 2013 Listen to Codependency and Conflict. “Languages of LoveTeleseminar.

Girls 2 Women Telesummit, October 14, 2013 about how shame and self-esteem starts in childhood.

October 24, 2013, 100.5 FM Codependency and couples in new sobriety on Vancouver Recovery Radio

Dec. 8, 2013 Relationship Revolution Summit. On the origins of shame and its affect on relationships

June 30, 2012 Listen to a seminar on the symptoms, causes, and progression of codependency

October 20, 2012 CityTV Interview with Connie Martinson on Talk Books

June 25, 2012 W4CY (W4CY.com) with Cheryl Resnick

October 6, 2012 Interview with Denise Krochta on Addicted to Addicts about Codependency and Enabling. See also my blog interview with Cathy Taughinbaugh on codependency and parenting, Helping Parents Find Peace.

Nov. 6, 2012 CBS Sky Radio “A Moment of Change” with Sherry Gaba

November 2, 2012 Southern California Counseling Center. A seminar for counselors, discussing symptoms and causes of codependency: Click: here

October 2, 2011 Interview with Donna Marie Thompson on Bouncing Back from Divorce.

January 13, 2011 Interview with Rev. Shayna Lester, LMFT, Domestic Violence expert. How to recognize abuse and what you can do.

December 7, 2010 Interview with Tamara Small on Blog Talk Radio “Decode Your Dreams.” Read more about dreams.

Listen to more talks on codependency and relationships, here and here.

Public Appearances

Standing Our Ground

September 14–16, 2018  She Recovers in LA Conference

Dealing with a Narcissist

January 31, 2016 LA Performance Center. Watch a YouTube excerpt.

How To Raise Your Self-Esteem

January 31, 2015 Santa Monica Ocean Park Library

Healing from Shame: Our Inner Saboteur

June 28 2014 Palms-Rancho Park Branch Library

Why Relationships Hurt

June 8, 2013 Marina Del Rey Library
June 23, 2012 L.A. Brentwood Library
June 30, 2012 Santa Monica Main Library
Listen to this talk on the symptoms, causes, and progression of Codependency.
Sept. 4, 2012 Westwood Library
Sept. 29, 2012 Palms-Rancho Park Library
Nov. 13, 2012 West Hollywood Library
Dec. 13, 2012 Main Downtown Library
February 9, 2013 Culver City Library

Media Appearances

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Media, Seminars, and Public Appearances on How to Overcome Codependency and Low Self-Esteem and other topics provided by Darlene Lancer, MFT, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in Santa Monica, CA, and author of Codependency for Dummies and 10 Steps to Self-Esteem

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